When I went to Abuja I imagined I’d bump into a rich northern man who is tall, dark, and handsome with an accent I can’t place. We would start off as worst enemies as he would see me as a feminist and I’d see him as a patriarchal twat and…

Happy New Year and Hello to you my lovely disruptors (gotten from the movie ‘Glass Onion’) It’s been a while and I am so sorry I have been quiet. It has been overwhelming trying to run a business, go to work and fulfil other responsibilities as well. How do you…

Arise! all my Nigerian girls; Who have been told “good girl no dey pay” Who have been told you need to kiss a lot of frogs to get to the prince. Who have been told that being a virgin means nothing and won’t take you to heaven. Who have been…

Hey guys, I officially started my writing business a few days ago, I mean why wait for a job when I can be self-employed right? Words that sell is a phrase I came up with for my business. …

Hey you, I wish I could I hug you tightly and whisper into your ears that everything will be alright. I know it’s physically impossible to do that right now but please imagine me hugging you. Yesterday, during my quiet time I told myself that I was tired of the…

I found myself saying this phrase with my body sprawled on the floor and tears making their way down the corner of my right eye. I do not have a job and actively working my ass off to get one by sending out CVs and doing other stuff job seekers…

Working in a corporate setting outside a hospital has been eye-opening and I made a lot of mistakes due to naivety and kindness. That’s why I decided to list them out so you don’t make the same mistakes. No contract: When I got my first writing gig, a contract was signed but…

“So why don’t you have a boyfriend?” he asked, “I came to look for money in Abuja” I replied. “A good husband is better than a good job” he said with a note of finality. “Okay, Sir.” …

A few months ago, I applied to be an outreachy intern and got accepted into the contribution phase. The contribution phase is where you contribute to open-source software and all that technicalities, for my non-techy readers (please do more research on this) Yesterday, the results came out for selected interns…